12 Days: Setting up the Nativity as a Family 

Last year, instead of setting up our creche all at once, we took 12 days and used it in the evening for family worship time. I think this will become a special tradition for our family.

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I collect Willow Tree figurines, which are cracked and super glued together in poses suggesting a chiropractor is needed in Bethlehem – courtesy of offspring and cat. Any nativity set should work though.
We have 3 children. To maintain peace on earth, good will toward men – we created 3 jobs that rotate daily. One child turns on the fireplace. One opens a bag, pulls out the character(s) and holds it/them while my husband or I read the appropriate scripture. The third child puts the character(s) into the scene – usually in a cringeworthy, unbalanced, totally wrong place way. Bless. 

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Day 1: Setting up the area where the story will be told. Discussion about the unfolding of the Christmas story and about Old Testament prophesy that gave clues about the coming of the Messiah.

Reading: Isaiah 9:2-7 NLT

The people who walk in darkness will see a great light. For those who live in a land of deep darkness, a light will shine. You will enlarge the nation of Israel, and its people will rejoice. They will rejoice before you as people rejoice at the harvest and like warriors dividing the plunder. For you will break the yoke of their slavery and lift the heavy burden from their shoulders. You will break the oppressor’s rod, just as you did when you destroyed the army of Midian. The boots of the warrior and the uniforms bloodstained by war will all be burned. They will be fuel for the fire. For a child is born to us, a son is given to us. The government will rest on his shoulders. And he will be called: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. His government and its peace will never end. He will rule with fairness and justice from the throne of his ancestor David for all eternity. The passionate commitment of the Lord of Heaven’s Armies will make this happen!
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Day 2: The Angel Gabriel appears to Zecharaiah

Reading: Luke 1:5-20 NLT

When Herod was king of Judea, there was a Jewish priest named Zechariah. He was a member of the priestly order of Abijah, and his wife, Elizabeth, was also from the priestly line of Aaron. Zechariah and Elizabeth were righteous in God’s eyes, careful to obey all of the Lord’s commandments and regulations. They had no children because Elizabeth was unable to conceive, and they were both very old. One day Zechariah was serving God in the Temple, for his order was on duty that week. As was the custom of the priests, he was chosen by lot to enter the sanctuary of the Lord and burn incense. While the incense was being burned, a great crowd stood outside, praying. While Zechariah was in the sanctuary, an angel of the Lord appeared to him, standing to the right of the incense altar. Zechariah was shaken and overwhelmed with fear when he saw him. But the angel said, “Don’t be afraid, Zechariah! God has heard your prayer. Your wife, Elizabeth, will give you a son, and you are to name him John. You will have great joy and gladness, and many will rejoice at his birth, for he will be great in the eyes of the Lord. He must never touch wine or other alcoholic drinks. He will be filled with the Holy Spirit, even before his birth.  And he will turn many Israelites to the Lord their God. He will be a man with the spirit and power of Elijah. He will prepare the people for the coming of the Lord. He will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and he will cause those who are rebellious to accept the wisdom of the godly.” Zechariah said to the angel, “How can I be sure this will happen? I’m an old man now, and my wife is also well along in years.” Then the angel said, “I am Gabriel! I stand in the very presence of God. It was he who sent me to bring you this good news! But now, since you didn’t believe what I said, you will be silent and unable to speak until the child is born. For my words will certainly be fulfilled at the proper time.”
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Day 3: The Angel Gabriel Speaks with Mary

Reading: Luke 1:26-38 NLT

In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a village in Galilee, to a virgin named Mary. She was engaged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of King David. Gabriel appeared to her and said, “Greetings, favored woman! The Lord is with you! ” Confused and disturbed, Mary tried to think what the angel could mean. “Don’t be afraid, Mary,” the angel told her, “for you have found favor with God! You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you will name him Jesus. He will be very great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his ancestor David. And he will reign over Israel forever; his Kingdom will never end!” Mary asked the angel, “But how can this happen? I am a virgin.” The angel replied, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the baby to be born will be holy, and he will be called the Son of God. What’s more, your relative Elizabeth has become pregnant in her old age! People used to say she was barren, but she has conceived a son and is now in her sixth month. For the word of God will never fail. ” Mary responded, “I am the Lord’s servant. May everything you have said about me come true.” And then the angel left her.
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Day 4: Mary Visits Elizabeth

Reading: Luke 1:39-56 NLT

A few days later Mary hurried to the hill country of Judea, to the town where Zechariah lived. She entered the house and greeted Elizabeth. At the sound of Mary’s greeting, Elizabeth’s child leaped within her, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. Elizabeth gave a glad cry and exclaimed to Mary, “God has blessed you above all women, and your child is blessed. Why am I so honored, that the mother of my Lord should visit me? When I heard your greeting, the baby in my womb jumped for joy. You are blessed because you believed that the Lord would do what he said.” Mary responded, “Oh, how my soul praises the Lord. How my spirit rejoices in God my Savior! For he took notice of his lowly servant girl, and from now on all generations will call me blessed. For the Mighty One is holy, and he has done great things for me. He shows mercy from generation to generation to all who fear him. His mighty arm has done tremendous things! He has scattered the proud and haughty ones. He has brought down princes from their thrones and exalted the humble. He has filled the hungry with good things and sent the rich away with empty hands. He has helped his servant Israel and remembered to be merciful. For he made this promise to our ancestors, to Abraham and his children forever.” Mary stayed with Elizabeth about three months and then went back to her own home.
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Day 5: The Birth of John the Baptist and the prophesy of Zechariah

Reading: Luke 57-80 NLT

When it was time for Elizabeth’s baby to be born, she gave birth to a son. And when her neighbors and relatives heard that the Lord had been very merciful to her, everyone rejoiced with her. When the baby was eight days old, they all came for the circumcision ceremony. They wanted to name him Zechariah, after his father. But Elizabeth said, “No! His name is John!” “What?” they exclaimed. “There is no one in all your family by that name.” So they used gestures to ask the baby’s father what he wanted to name him. He motioned for a writing tablet, and to everyone’s surprise he wrote, “His name is John.” Instantly Zechariah could speak again, and he began praising God. Awe fell upon the whole neighborhood, and the news of what had happened spread throughout the Judean hills. Everyone who heard about it reflected on these events and asked, “What will this child turn out to be?” For the hand of the Lord was surely upon him in a special way. Then his father, Zechariah, was filled with the Holy Spirit and gave this prophecy: “Praise the Lord, the God of Israel, because he has visited and redeemed his people. He has sent us a mighty Savior from the royal line of his servant David, just as he promised through his holy prophets long ago. Now we will be saved from our enemies and from all who hate us. He has been merciful to our ancestors by remembering his sacred covenant— the covenant he swore with an oath to our ancestor Abraham. We have been rescued from our enemies so we can serve God without fear, in holiness and righteousness for as long as we live. “And you, my little son, will be called the prophet of the Most High, because you will prepare the way for the Lord. You will tell his people how to find salvation through forgiveness of their sins. Because of God’s tender mercy, the morning light from heaven is about to break upon us, to give light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, and to guide us to the path of peace.” John grew up and became strong in spirit. And he lived in the wilderness until he began his public ministry to Israel.

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Day 6: The angel appears to Joseph

Reading: Matthew 1:18-24 NLT

This is how Jesus the Messiah was born. His mother, Mary, was engaged to be married to Joseph. But before the marriage took place, while she was still a virgin, she became pregnant through the power of the Holy Spirit. Joseph, to whom she was engaged, was a righteous man and did not want to disgrace her publicly, so he decided to break the engagement quietly. As he considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream. “Joseph, son of David,” the angel said, “do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife. For the child within her was conceived by the Holy Spirit. And she will have a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” All of this occurred to fulfill the Lord’s message through his prophet: “Look! The virgin will conceive a child! She will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel, which means ‘God is with us.’” When Joseph woke up, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded and took Mary as his wife.

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Day 7: Joseph and Mary travel to Bethlehem

Reading: Luke 2:1-5 KJV

And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus, that all the world should be taxed.  (And this taxing was first made when Cyrenius was governor of Syria.)  And all went to be taxed, every one into his own city.  And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:)  To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife, being great with child.

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Day 8: Mary Gives Birth to Jesus

Reading: Luke 2:6-7 KJV

And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered.  And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn.

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Day 9: Angels Appear to the Shepherds; Shepherds Find the Christ Child

Reading: Luke 2:8-20 KJV

And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.  And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.  And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.  For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.  And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.  And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying,  Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.  And it came to pass, as the angels were gone away from them into heaven, the shepherds said one to another, Let us now go even unto Bethlehem, and see this thing which is come to pass, which the Lord hath made known unto us.  And they came with haste, and found Mary, and Joseph, and the babe lying in a manger.  And when they had seen it, they made known abroad the saying which was told them concerning this child.  And all they that heard it wondered at those things which were told them by the shepherds.  But Mary kept all these things, and pondered them in her heart.  And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things that they had heard and seen, as it was told unto them.

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Day 10: The Star

Reading: Matthew 2:1-8 NLT

Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the reign of King Herod. About that time some wise men from eastern lands arrived in Jerusalem, asking, “Where is the newborn king of the Jews? We saw his star as it rose, and we have come to worship him.” King Herod was deeply disturbed when he heard this, as was everyone in Jerusalem. He called a meeting of the leading priests and teachers of religious law and asked, “Where is the Messiah supposed to be born?” “In Bethlehem in Judea,” they said, “for this is what the prophet wrote: ‘And you, O Bethlehem in the land of Judah, are not least among the ruling cities of Judah, for a ruler will come from you who will be the shepherd for my people Israel.’ ” Then Herod called for a private meeting with the wise men, and he learned from them the time when the star first appeared. Then he told them, “Go to Bethlehem and search carefully for the child. And when you find him, come back and tell me so that I can go and worship him, too!”
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Day 11: The Wise Men Worship Jesus

Reading: Matthew 2:9-12 NLT

After this interview the wise men went their way. And the star they had seen in the east guided them to Bethlehem. It went ahead of them and stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were filled with joy! They entered the house and saw the child with his mother, Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasure chests and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. When it was time to leave, they returned to their own country by another route, for God had warned them in a dream not to return to Herod.

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Day 12: The Light Came Into the World

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Reading: John 1:1-14 KJV

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.  The same was in the beginning with God.  All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made.  In him was life; and the life was the light of men.  And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.  There was a man sent from God, whose name was John.  The same came for a witness, to bear witness of the Light, that all men through him might believe.  He was not that Light, but was sent to bear witness of that Light.  That was the true Light, which lighteth every man that cometh into the world.  He was in the world, and the world was made by him, and the world knew him not.  He came unto his own, and his own received him not.  But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:  Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.  And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.

Comparisons: Only What is Given by Heaven

I do a scripture writing plan as part of my devos. The theme for the month of November was envy/comparisons. As an Enneagram 3 and a perfectionist, comparisons are a strong area of temptation for me. This has been a struggle as long as I can remember. I don’t know if this is simply part of the fallen nature of all humanity – an offshoot of pride? Or if it is unique to we poor 3s who just can’t seem to get enough affirmation. I was not looking forward to this writing plan at all, but I trudged my way through.

I was surprised about an omission from the list. Obvi, I would have chosen better verses. A section of scripture I discovered in high school has been the most help to me as a 3 who thrives on being the favorite and can’t handle being not. EVERYONE should totes love me and think I’m all that and a bag of chips (Why a bag of chips? These are the questions that give me insomnia). I am grateful the Word is our weapon against temptation. Plus God has had to knock me down off my self-built pedestal more than a few times.

In John 3, we focus all our attention on the first half of the chapter with Nicodemus and then the verse everyone can rattle off in the King James so quickly it only takes one breath to get through. If you’re super spiritual you can tack verse 17 on the end. We overlook the second half of the chapter. Here’s what jumps out at me and I have returned to it countless times:

This tiny little two verse story that seems to have no significance has been my weapon.

image: lds.org 

We can assume John the Baptist was orphaned at a young age, as his parents were already walking on banana peels when he was born. Baggage isn’t some kind of new invention. People in the Bible had their own very real traumas and heartbreaks and formative experiences. They didn’t walk around in long bathrobes saying verily and thee and thou in serious voices. They were hot messes like us, only Xanax hadn’t been invented yet. Thank God they had wine! (Except the Wesleyans.They had grape juice.)

Jesus was John’s cousin. They were the same age. We know that Mary and Elizabeth were close so it is likely John and Jesus knew each other or had at least known each other as children. Imagine being the child Jesus’ cousin. Jesus was always perfectly behaved, even though you’re the one who’s the pastor’s kid. You legit have nothing to tattle about. Ever. Plus, He had two parents and a bunch of brothers. And Uncle Joseph and Aunt Mary were totes free range parents. Takes them 3 days to figure out their kid is missing. How can you compare to that kind of life? You can’t. So you go live in the desert and eat bugs. This is clearly the most logical option.

In John 3, both men are adults. John the Baptist has already reluctantly (out of humility) baptized Jesus and knows He is the Messiah. John has been the one baptizing people for a very long time. This is why we call him johnthebaptist. It’s his gig. That and calling Pharisees bad names. Jesus is brand new on the scene.

Some men come to John and they’re all kinds of indignant. They tell John that this man he recently baptized is now doing His very own baptisms. And – I love this part because it’s totally human nature – they tell him “EVERYONE” is going to Jesus instead! Oh no, not EVERYONE!! What ever are we going to do? (Pastor families – If Bob, bless, tells you EVERYONE is upset with what you’re doing… it’s probably just Bob and his wife. And maybe a distant relative. Shake it off.)

They’re looking for John to be totally ticked off out of jealousy. Side note- how often are we tempted to get someone else angry alongside us? For me, like all the times. It is powerful and gratifying to run to someone and turn them against our enemies. Subtle yet alluring power.

I am in love with how John responds. I visualize him shrugging and not even looking up from his grasshopper lunch. He says, “A person can receive only what is given them from heaven.”

A person can receive only what is given them from heaven.

Drop mic! (Except not at church because those suckers are expensive and they belong to Jesus and Deacon Bob frowns on such.)

If you read that statement out of context, it sounds like stuff. Things. You can only get the possessions God wants you to have. I don’t disagree with that Truth but it’s bad proof texting.

John is specifically referring to attention. Affirmation. Adoration. Talent. Success. Followers. If someone (or EVERYONE) ditches you for a cooler friend… well, you would only have them still around you if God wanted them to be. What a yucky, unfair system this is. It’s part of the Kingdom system. Dying to self.

When you face anonymity – it’s because heaven didn’t want you to be famous. If someone outshines you – heaven is giving them shining. If you work your tail off and nobody notices – it’s because God chose to hide your efforts. If you’re not the fave of someone whose approval you covet – someone else was meant to be.

Ouchy ouchy truth stuff. It has taken me approximately a gazillion returns to those verses and I’m still not there. But I have John’s divinely inspired statement as a weapon.

The Word of the Lord… (Carrie Paraphrased Edition)

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For reference:

They came to John and said to him, “Rabbi, that man who was with you on the other side of the Jordan—the one you testified about—look, he is baptizing, and everyone is going to him.”

To this John replied, “A person can receive only what is given them from heaven.”

John 3:26‭-‬27 NIV